The fact that we have all gone through excruciating pain at point or another in life can never be over-stressed. The truth is, pain has saturated our lives’ atmosphere. You can hardly spot out an individual that lives a life that has never been marred with tint of pain because pain is what embraces us and gives us a strange welcome when we are born.
We can never compare the pain individual ‘A’ is feeling to the pain that individual ‘B’ is experiencing because their situations are unique in their on way. Comparing one man’s pain to another is almost like giving a 5th grade school child an examination for a final year biochemistry student.
It not only is not fair, but it is humiliating simply because the two are in two different worlds. Each of them has their own unique abilities and they are able to handle examinations that match their abilities. The same principle applies to life struggles.
But must we be angry all the time because we are going through pain? or because our pain appears to our own mortal site to surpass all what other people are going through? Certainly not!
While pain is in itself a draw back because it sometimes has the ability to make us lay down our tools of work and cause us to swim in our own rivers of tears, I believe pain can be embraced. I believe the right attitude can be inculcated and we all can, at one point in our lives, live joyful lives even amidst the rushing winds of pain.
Being angry at everybody and everything that surrounds us does not solve the problem of pain. Instead, by laying down our tools we simply loose more time and we are at the risk of missing opportunities that would have been our windows of change to transform the wall picture of our lives.
Mourning over lost opportunities will simply bring more mourning. Because while you mourn, another opportunity passes you by and when you realize you have lost it too, you mourn even the more!